Although nearly 40% of women around the world suffer from abuse in one form or another, domestic violence is the best kept secret in many homes. Battered women are mainly in the age group 15 to 45 years if it can be great, too. Abuse can begin at the beginning of the marriage or not until much later, after years of happy marriage. It 'a slap in the face to start the process for serious injury and sometimes even death. Studies have shown that more harm than traffic accidents, domestic violence, rape or causesAttacks.
Women suffer in silence for several reasons. You may feel ashamed or embarrassed to let the world know that they are violated. Incorrect settings of society, especially in Eastern countries have absorbed from childhood. In a survey conducted by the International Institute of Population Studies in India, carried out 54% of women thought it was ok for women to be beaten by their husbands. 51% of men thought so too.
The Church recommends, patience, prayer and tolerance, hopeModel will win the tyrant, psychiatrists advise women against partner violence results in unnecessary prescribing tranquilizers and generous, to say nothing of the victims, their friends: "The marriage is perfect. There are good times and bad" and are reluctant to disturb the police what are a private matter. " Inherent in all of these settings is the presumption that the woman is actually a real fault. This hidden justify the offender involves the isolation of totalWoman.
Fear and economic dependence on their husbands, minor children may prevent poor education and lack of support system also means that women break the silence.
Wife beaters belong to all areas of life, whether rich or poor, educated or uneducated, religious or irreligious. They are mostly people with low self-esteem, feelings of inadequacy and hidden from the public. You can also insecure in their jobs, unable to compete with, or uncertain of their future prospects.You need something to boost their egos, so that they exert their superiority in the house. They share physical force with force, and use their wives as punching bags.
The abuse can be passed down from generation to generation. Batterers Many were beaten as children. You can choose among families in which women propose is a way of life. Women who grow up in such families have low self-esteem. They believe that they could not live up to the expectations of their husbands, and therefore deservepunished.
Like many women today are economically independent, men tend to feel insecure. This leads to jealousy, greed, suspicion, and if unchecked, will end in abuse. There are cases of men are jealous of their women pregnant. For kicks and blows to the belly, hoping that the intruder (fetus) may be canceled.
Alcohol and drugs can unmask psychopathic personality. The violence is then sucked accused in the case.
Research has shownthat people compare military or police forces are more prone to violence than the general population. Fight to overcome "is the credo of the military. If a woman is perceived as a threat to their manhood, must be subjected to them.
Even women know that their husbands, or causing the issue too submissive or bold. Against unfair or ongoing troubleshooting can be demoralizing. The person feels unable to establish its power only through violence.
It is an abuseAbout power and control. It can take many forms, physical, mental, emotional, financial or sexual. There may be serious and potentially life threatening. If children are young, the atmosphere of psychological damage.
As described Eleanore Warner, the pattern of violence is cyclical. It starts with building the tension with angry and threatening gestures, verbal abuse, call control, lying, cheating, blame the woman for everything that goes wrong, the execution ofThe isolation from friends and relatives, withholding food or money to keep the weapons or to create fear.
This will be followed by physical violence, sexual or psychological. Slapping, punching, choking or biting can be very traumatic. Violence or coercion may be used to obtain sex.
The last step is repentance. The man apologizes and promises not to repeat such behavior. He showers with generous gifts, or even promises to see a counselor. The woman is occupied byto change its promise. She believes that there is hope for marriage, if they can just be patient. She gives him a second chance.
But there is no escape from this vicious circle, if the victim is matters into their own hands. When you realize that you are in an abusive relationship, must be to break the silence. Domestic violence is not a private matter. This is a social problem of bad times in which we live, which reflects
• The police must be informed of how the laws againstdomestic violence.
• You must decide, trusted friends to help free in their struggle.
• A security plan must be shared, for example, you must leave the house quickly. This is the collection of certificates, documents, cash, important phone numbers of groups that contribute to the addresses of safe houses for abused women and their personal needs such as clothing and toiletries.
• Many religious institutions to expand the supportand counseling for women in need to receive advice can make a big difference for peace of mind.
• It 'always good for a woman and physically fit for training in some form of self-defense.
There are many ways for recipients of friends and protectors to help victims of abuse.
• Do not encourage trial and the victim to verbalize their feelings and their problems. You must be sure that you are not alone and that there are many women whoin the same situation. It must also be certain that they are not a bad person.
• Be a good listener. Should not require, however, their decisions on it, but leaves its decisions.
• Support may, in the form of aid to the police or looking for a good lawyer or a good adviser.
Be • Information on domestic violence and legal protection, programs for battered women and shelters available.
• SometimesFinancial support may be needed to overcome the crisis.
• accompanying the victim to hospital when he suffered serious injuries, and a source of moral support.
Every woman has the right to live in dignity. If you bring in people and the protection of battered women and their children continue their trauma behind closed doors.